The Idealistic Poet

Introduction

All that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither, deep roots are not reached by the frost.

— J.R.R. Tolkien

Quiet and reserved as they may seem, INFPs (Mediators) have a vibrant, passionate inner life. Creative and imaginative, they gladly lose themselves in daydreams, inventing all sorts of stories and conversations in their minds. INFPs are known for their sensitivity, showing deep emotional responses to music, art, nature, and the people around them. They are also known for being sentimental and nostalgic, often treasuring special keepsakes and memories that brighten their days and fill their hearts with joy.

Idealistic and empathetic, INFPs long for deep, soulful relationships and feel called to help others. In our society's fast pace and competitive nature, they may sometimes feel lonely or invisible, drifting in a world that doesn't seem to value the qualities that make them unique. But it's precisely because INFPs are so rich in sensitivity and deep creativity that they have a unique potential to connect deeply and spark positive change.

Gift of Empathy

INFPs share a sincere curiosity about the depths of human nature. To their introspective core, they are exquisitely in tune with their own thoughts and feelings, but also long to understand those around them. INFPs are compassionate, nonjudgmental, and always willing to listen to others. When someone opens up to them or turns to them for comfort, they are honored to listen and help.

Empathy is one of the greatest gifts of the INFP personality, but it can sometimes be a liability. The world's problems can weigh heavily on their shoulders, and these personalities are vulnerable to internalizing others' negative moods or mindsets. Unless they learn to set boundaries, INFPs may become overwhelmed by just how much injustice there is to set right.

Speaking the Truth

Few things unsettle INFPs more than pretending to be someone they're not. With their commitment to sensitivity and authenticity, these types tend to crave opportunities for creative self-expression. It's no surprise, then, that many famous INFPs are poets, writers, actors, or artists. They can't help but ponder the meaning and purpose of life, dreaming up all sorts of stories, ideas, and possibilities along the way.

Through these imaginative landscapes, these soulful personalities can explore their own inner nature and their place in the world. This is a beautiful trait, but INFPs sometimes show a tendency to daydream or fantasize rather than take action. At times, these types may wrestle with choices until the last possible moment, intensely deliberating with themselves in their minds. To avoid frustration, dissatisfaction, or a sense of helplessness, INFPs need to make sure they take decisive steps to turn their dreams and ideas into reality.

Seeking a Calling

This type tends to feel directionless or stuck until they connect with a sense of purpose in life. For many, this purpose relates to uplifting others. And while they want to help everyone, INFPs need to focus their energy and efforts—otherwise, they may end up exhausted.

Fortunately, like spring flowers, INFPs' creativity and idealism can bloom even after the darkest seasons. They know the world will never be perfect, but they care about making it better in any way they can. This quiet conviction to do what's right may explain why INFPs so often inspire compassion, kindness, and beauty wherever they go.